Titles that we recommend are featured below. The ones with reviews are noted with an asterisk (*). Some titles are recommended with a caveat. At the end of this page, we provide a list of titles on this theme, with reviews, that we do not recommend.

This list includes books about gender diversity for all ages. For more books about gender diversity for young children, see Early Childhood: Learning About Gender Diversity.

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And Tango Makes Three

By Justin Richardson, Peter Parnell, Henry Cole (Illustrator)

Baby’s First Words*

By Stella Blackstone, Sunny Scribens

Being You: A First Conversation about Gender

By Megan Madison,  Jessica Ralli, and Anne/Andy Passchier (Illustrator)

Daddy, Papa, and Me

By Leslea Newman, Carol Thompson (Illustrator)

Gender Identity for Kids

By Andy Passchier

My Shadow Is Purple

By Scott Stuart

Pride Colors

By Robin Stevenson

Téo's Tutu

By Maryann Jacob Macias and Alea Marley (Illustrator)

10,000 Dresses*

By Marcus Ewert

Antonio's Card/La Tarjeta de Antonio

By Rigoberto Gonzalez, Cecilia Alvarez (Illustrator)

Call Me Max

By Kyle Lukoff and Luciano Lozano (Illustrator)
Mombian review: Call Me Max

Calvin *

By Vanessa Ford, JR Ford, and Kayla Harren (Illustrator)

A Child's Introduction to Pride: The Inspirational History and Culture of the LGBTQIA+ Community

By Sarah Prager and Caitlin O'Dwyer (Illustrator)

Grandad's Camper

By Harry Woodgate

Curriculum Guide from Reading is Resistance

The Harvey Milk Story

By Kari Krakow and David Gardner (Illustrator)

Heather Has Two Mommies

By Leslea Newman, Laura Cornell (Illustrator)

I Am Jazz *

By Jessica Herthel, Jazz Jennings, and Shelagh McNicholas (Illustrator)

I Promise

By Catherine Hernandez and Syrus Marcus Ware (Illustrator)

If You're a Kid Like Gavin

By Gavin Grimm,  Kyle Lukoff, and  J Yang (Illustrator)

It Feels Good to Be Yourself

By Theresa Thorn, Noah Grigni (Illustrator)

Jack (Not Jackie)*

By Erica Silverman

Julián at the Wedding

By Jessica Love

King and King

By Linda De Haan, Stern Nijland, Linda De Haan (Illustrator)

The Legend of Auntie Po

By Shing Yin Khor

Los Mejores Colores / Best Colors

By Eric Hoffman, Eida de La Vega (Translator), Celeste Henriquez (Illustrator)

Love, Violet

By Charlotte Sullivan Wild and Charlene Chua (Illustrator)
Mombian Review: - Love, Violet

Mama and Mommy and Me in the Middle

By Nina Lacour and Kaylani Juanita (Illustrator)

Max and the Talent Show

By Kyle Lukoff and Luciano Lozano (Illustrator)
Mombian review: Max and the Talent Show

Max on the Farm

By Kyle Lukoff and Luciano Lozano (Illustrator)
Mombian review: Max on the Farm

Miss Rita, Mystery Reader

By Sam Donovan, Kristen Wixted, and Violet Tobacco (Illustrator)

Mom and Mum Are Getting Married!

By Ken Setterington, Alice Priestley (Illustrator)

Mommy, Mama, and Me

By Leslea Newman, Carol Thompson (Illustrator)

My Footprints

By Bao Phi, Basia Tran

My Rainbow *

By Deshanna Neal,  Trinity Neal, and Art Twink (Illustrator)

One of a Kind, Like Me / Unico Como Yo*

By Laurin Mayeno, Robert Liu-Trujillo (Artist)

Our Subway Baby

By Peter Mercurio and Leo Espinosa (Illustrator)

The Rainbow Parade

By Emily Neilson

Curriculum Guide from Reading is Resistance

Ritu Weds Chandni

By Ameya Narvankar 

Salma Writes a Book

By Danny Ramadan and Anna Bron (Illustrator)

Sam!

By Dani Gabriel, Robert Liu-Trujillo (Illustrator)

Sharice's Big Voice: A Native Kid Becomes a Congresswoman *

By Sharice Davids, Nancy K. Mays, and Joshua Mangeshig Pawis-Steckley (Illustrator)

Sparkle Boy*

By Lesléa Newman

Strong

By Rob Kearney, Eric Rosswood, and Nidhi Chanani (Illustrator)

They She He Me: Free to Be!*

By Maya & Matthew Gonzalez

This Day in June

By Gayle E. Pitman

'Twas the Night Before Pride

By Joanna McClintick and Juana Medina (Illustrator)
Spanish edition available: La víspera de orgullo

When Aidan Became a Brother

By Kyle Lukoff, Kaylani Juanita (Illustrator)

When We Love Someone

By Ernesto Javier Martinez

The Civil War of Amos Abernathy

By Michael Leali

Different Kinds of Fruit

By Kyle Lukoff

From the Notebooks of Melanin Sun

By Jacqueline Woodson

The House You Pass on the Way

By Jacqueline Woodson

King and the Dragonflies

By Kacen Callender

The Many Half-Lived Lives of Sam Sylvester *

By Maya MacGregor

The Moon Within*

By Aida Salazar

The Other Boy*

By M. G. Hennessey

Pauli Murray: The Life of a Pioneering Feminist and Civil Rights Activist

By Terry Catasús Jennings, Rosita Stevens-Holsey, and Ashanti Fortson (Illustrator)

Pet

By Akwaeke Emezi
Read a teacher's story: Exploring Justice through Fiction: Middle School Students Analyze the Book Pet

Too Bright to See

By Kyle Lukoff

Almost Perfect

By Brian Katcher

Am I Blue? Coming Out from the Silence

By Marion Dane Bauer, Beck Underwood (Illustrator)

Annie on My Mind

By Nancy Garden

Ash

By Malinda Lo

Bait

By Alex Sanchez

Between Mom and Jo

By Julie Anne Peters

Boyfriends with Girlfriends

By Alex Sanchez

Ciel

By Sophie LaBelle

Fade to Black

By Alex Flinn

The God Box

By Alex Sanchez

Growing Up Gay / Lesbian: A Literary Anthology

By Bennett L. Singer (Editor)

Grl2grl: Short Fictions

By Julie Anne Peters

Jack

By A. M. Homes

Jaya and Rasa. A Love Story

By Sonia Patel

Juliet Takes a Breath *

By Gabby Rivera

Keeping You a Secret

By Julie Anne Peters

Keya Das's Second Act

By Sopan Deb

The Love and Lies of Rukhsana Ali

By Sabina Khan

Luna

By Julie Anne Peters

The Miseducation of Cameron Post

By Emily M. Danforth

Music of What Happens*

By Bill Konigsberg

Only This Beautiful Moment

By Abdi Nazemian

Queens of Geek*

By Jen Wilde

Rainbow Boys

By Alex Sanchez

Ruby

By Rosa Guy

Shine*

By Lauren Myracle

Skim

By Mariko Tamaki, Jillian Tamaki (Illustrator)

We Deserve Monuments

By Jas Hammonds

The 57 Bus: A True Story of Two Teenagers and the Crime That Changed Their Lives

By Dashka Slater

All Boys Aren't Blue: A Memoir-Manifesto

By George M. Johnson

Beyond Magenta: Transgender Teens Speak Out

By Susan Kuklin

Fun Home: A Family Tragicomic

By Alison Bechdel

Gender Queer: A Memoir

Maia Kobabe

The Gay Revolution: The Story of the Struggle

By Lillian Faderman

GLBTQ: The Survival Guide for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender, and Questioning Teens

By Kelly Huegel

Hello, Cruel World: 101 Alternatives to Suicide for Teens, Freaks, and Other Outlaws

By Kate Bornstein, Sara Quin (Foreword by)

Ma and Me: A Memoir

By Putsata Reang

One Life: Young Readers Edition

By Megan Rapinoe

Our Work Is Everywhere: An Illustrated Oral History of Queer and Trans Resistance

By Syan Rose, foreword by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha 

Pedro and Me: Friendship, Loss, and What I Learned

By Judd Winick

A Queer History of the United States for Young People

By Michael Bronski

She He They Me: For the Sisters Misters & Binary Resisters

By Robyn Ryle

Troublemaker for Justice The Story of Bayard Rustin the Man Behind the March on Washington*

By Jacqueline Houtman, Walter Naegle, Michael G. Long

Are You My Mother?: A Comic Drama

By Alison Bechdel

Becoming a Visible Man

By Jamison Green

I Must Resist: Bayard Rustin's Life in Letters

By Michael G. Long (Editor), Bayard Rustin, Julian Bond (Foreword by)

Lost Prophet: The Life and Times of Bayard Rustin

By John D'Emilio

Mama's Boy, Preacher's Son

By Kevin Jennings

The Other Side of Paradise: A Memoir

By Staceyann Chin

Sister Outsider: Essays and Speeches

By Audre Lorde, Cheryl Clarke (Foreword by)

Time on Two Crosses: The Collected Writings of Bayard Rustin

By Bayard Rustin, Devon W. Carbado (Editor), Donald Weise (Editor)

Warrior Poet: A Biography of Audre Lorde

By Alexis De Veaux

Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal?

By Jeanette Winterson

Zami: A New Spelling of My Name: A Biomythography

By Geraldine Audre Lorde

Afrekete: An Anthology of Black Lesbian Writing

By Catherine E. McKinley

Angels in America: A Gay Fantasia on National Themes

By Tony Kushner

Baby Remember My Name: An Anthology of New Queer Girl Writing

By Michelle Tea (Editor)

Brother to Brother: New Writing by Black Gay Men

By Essex Hemphill (Editor)

The Collected Poems of Audre Lorde

By Audre Lorde

Diaries of a Terrorist

By Christopher Soto

The Essential Dykes to Watch Out for

By Alison Bechdel

Funny Boy

By Shyam Selvadurai

Giovanni's Room

By James Baldwin

Growing Up Gay/Lesbian: A Literary Anthology

By Bennett L. Singer (Editor)

In the Life: A Black Gay Anthology

By Joseph Beam (Editor)

M. Butterfly: With an Afterword by the Playwright

By David Henry Hwang

Memory Mambo: Big Sur Pioneers

By Achy Obejas

Oranges Are Not the Only Fruit

By Jeanette Winterson

Our Caribbean: A Gathering of Lesbian and Gay Writing from the Antilles

By Thomas Glave (Editor)

Pole Dancing to Gospel Hymns

By Andrea Gibson, Anis Mojgani (Illustrator)

Sassafrass, Cypress & Indigo

By Ntozake Shange

So Many Ways to Sleep Badly

By Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore

Stone Butch Blues

By Leslie Feinberg

Stuck Rubber Baby

By Howard Cruse

There Are Trans People Here

By H. Melt Download a study guide for There Are Trans People Here: Download.

The Torturer's Wife

By Thomas Glave

And the Band Played on: Politics, People, and the AIDS Epidemic

By Randy Shilts

And They Were Wonderful Teachers: Florida's Purge of Gay and Lesbian Teachers

By Karen L. Graves

Big Big Love: A Sex and Relationships Guide for People of Size (and Those Who Love Them)

By Hanne Blank

Come Out and Win: Organizing Yourself, Your Community, and Your World

By Sue Hyde

Fair Play: How LGBT Athletes Are Claiming Their Rightful Place in Sports

By Cyd Zeigler

Gay Rights at the Ballot Box

By Amy L. Stone

Gender Outlaws: The Next Generation

By Kate Bornstein, S. Bear Bergman

Gender Trouble: Feminism and the Subversion of Identity

By Judith Butler

The Gloria Anzaldua Reader

By Gloria Anzaldua, Analouise Keating (Editor)

Histories of the Transgender Child

By Jules Gill-Peterson

It Gets Better: Coming Out, Overcoming Bullying, and Creating a Life Worth Living

By Dan Savage (Editor), Terry Miller (Editor)

My Gender Workbook: How to Become a Real Man, a Real Woman, the Real You, or Something Else Entirely

By Kate Bornstein, Kate Bornstein

Nobody Passes: Rejecting the Rules of Gender and Conformity

By Matt Bernstein Sycamore (Editor)

Odd Girls and Twilight Lovers: A History of Lesbian Life in Twentieth-Century America

By Lillian Faderman

The Politics of Sexuality in Latin America: A Reader on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Rights

By Javier Corrales (Editor), Mario Pecheny (Editor)

Queer (In)Justice: The Criminalization of LGBT People in the United States

By Joey Mogul, Andrea Ritchie, Kay Whitlock

Queer America: A People's Glbt History of the United States

By Vicki L. Eaklor

Queer Indigenous Studies: Critical Interventions in Theory, Politics, and Literature

By Qwo-Li Driskill (Editor), Chris Finley (Editor), Brian Joseph Gilley (Editor)

Sexuality and Socialism: History, Politics, and Theory of LGBT Liberation

By Sherry Wolf

Spirited: Affirming the Soul and Black Gay/Lesbian Identity

By G. Winston James (Editor), Lisa C. Moore (Editor)

Stand by Me: The Forgotten History of Gay Liberation

By Jim Downs

Straight: The Surprisingly Short History of Hetrosexuality

By Hanne Blank

Sweet Tea: Black Gay Men of the South

By E. Patrick Johnson

That's Revolting!: Queer Strategies for Resisting Assimilation

By Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore (Editor)

Transgender 101: A Simple Guide to a Complex Issue

By Nicholas M. Teich

Transgender Warriors: Making History from Joan of Arc to Dennis Rodman

By Leslie Feinberg

Travels in a Gay Nation: Portraits of LGBTQ Americans

By Philip Gambone

Whipping Girl: A Transsexual Woman on Sexism and the Scapegoating of Femininity

By Julia Serano

Why Are Faggots So Afraid of Faggots?: Flaming Challenges to Masculinity, Objectification, and the Desire to Conform

By Mattilda Bernstein Sycamore (Editor)

The Women's House of Detention: A Queer History of a Forgotten Prison

By Hugh Ryan

Always My Child

By Kevin Jennings, Pat Shapiro (With)

Families Like Mine: Children of Gay Parents Tell It Like It Is

By Abigail Garner

Gay Parents/Straight Schools: Building Communication and Trust

By Virginia Casper, Steven B. Schultz

Beyond Tolerance Resource Guide

NYCoRE

Gay Parents / Straight Schools: Building Communication and Trust

By Virginia Casper, Steven B. Schultz

LGBTQ+ History in High School Classes in the United States since 1990

By Stacie Brensilver Berman

LGBTQ Youth and Education: Policies and Practices

By Cris Mayo and James A. Banks (Editor)

LGBTQIA+ Inclusive Children's Librarianship: Policies, Programs, and Practices

By Lucy Santos Green, Jenna Spiering, Vanessa Lynn Kitzie, and Julia Erlanger

Reading the Rainbow: LGBTQ-Inclusive Literacy Instruction in the Elementary Classroom

By Caitlin L. Ryan and Jill M. Hermann-Wilmarth

Rethinking Sexism, Gender, and Sexuality

By Kim Cosier (Editor), Rachel Harper (Editor), Jeff Sapp (Editor)

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